> How to Re-awaken Our Natural Mind of a Child Human Condition Essential Scripts

Peace and Joy
be with you and yours.

Re-awakening the Mind of a Child:
Loving Kindness


Absence of Entification
Absence of Unnecessary Conditioning
Absence of Unnecessary Thinking
Absence of Time and
   its Perception

Absence of Selfish Anger
Absence of Unnecessary

Attachment Theory
Belief Systems
Belief Systems Types
Belief Systems Lie
Reality Types Realist
Reality Types Idealist
Reality Types Liberal
Reality Types Conservative
Reality Types Matrix
Reality Types Diagonal
Reality Types Presenting-
   Shadow Personality

Reality Types
   Collapsing Personalities

Reality Types Absolute Reality
Reality Types Awareness
The Human Condition
Human Condition
   Essential Scripts

Human Condition Facts of Life
Human Condition Facts of Life

Human Condition
   Secondary Gain

Human Condition Fear:
   The Foundation

Tibetan Meditation 1
Tibetan Meditation 2
Alternative: The Belief Closet
Appreciating I
Appreciating II
Thank you

Level Two

  What the heck happened!??

Essential Scripts

It is at 5 that we begin to grow a set of dendrites that mature around 7 or 8, the Age of Reason.
At 5 or so, we learn clearly what mommy and daddy want — or so we think — from us.
Thus we learn a basic script:

The boy (naturally wanting to keep mommy happy) learns:
The man I am is the man my mother wished her husband had been when I was five.
The woman I marry is the woman my father wished his wife had been when I was five.

The daughter (naturally wanting to keep daddy happy) learns:
The woman I am is the woman my father wished his wife had been when I was five.
The man I marry is the man my mother wished her husband had been when I was five.

I lost who I am because I was afraid I would not be loved, appreciated, or accepted as I am.
So I assumed another identity - that being THE ONE (Princess, Prince, Messiah, etc.)
   whom I THOUGHT my parents/primary care givers wanted me to be
   so they would love, accept, understand, and appreciate me.

enter the psychic reality of the GREAT TRINITY: My, Myself, and I.
Ego manifestation shows up in the Human Condition as:
  Guilt, Shame, Blame. Worry, Depression, Anxiety, lack of self-trust & self-confidence.
And these manifestations are just learned conditioned habit patterns of behavior.

A very real, yet imaginary, unifying principal of psychic organization —
this ego that can trump who we are
   unless we consciously re-awaken to who we are.

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