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Secondary Gain
An unrecognized (or even recognized) benefit
for keeping a self-defeating mode of behavior is termed
Secondary Gain, which may be either allegedly positive or negative.
Do I get to prove:
what a schmuck I am?
what a victim of my circumstance I really am?
how I am powerless to change?
actually, just how AFRAID or FEARFUL
I am to change, to suceed, to fail, to live?
-just like my mother or father, teacher or relative said
I am when I was really young -
and I believed them!
(for my benefit)
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